The Evolved Masculine: Redefining Sex, Power & Success

If you’re longing to hit the “reset button” on what it means to be a man in this world, you’re not alone. There is a growing movement of men who are evolving, redefining personal power, sexuality, success and boldly defining their manhood. As an internationally recognized speaker and coach, Destin inspires and motivates you to be a version of yourself you perhaps never realized was possible, while providing the tools to help you get there. He interviews leaders who have meaningful contributions to this conversation and offers his unique brand of personal evolutionary coaching on air. He brings 20+ years of direct study, training and active life experimentation to help you have better sex, deeper connection to your masculine power and understand women and most importantly yourself like never before.
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Dec 29, 2016

Author and speaker Preston Smiles speaks with Destin about how he transformed his life from an LA street kid to a channel of divine love. He shares the five principles he's discovered in his journey and introduces his new book, Now or Never. Finally, he and Destin discuss the challenges facing men, including isolation and the response of the reptilian brain.

Preston Smiles has generated millions of views with his message of LOVE, and personal freedom, making a deep impact through writing, speaking, and making heart based videos. With his loyal social media tribe, using his unique gift to make complex ideas simple and relatable, Preston Smiles is breaking all the rules, and carving out his own path as a Next Generation Thought Leader. With the success of his new book LOVE LOUDER published by the world renown Simon & Schuster, Preston is gearing up to release what he calls his best work to date in “NOW or Never your epic life in 5 steps on december 27th.

He's has been featured in Forbes, South Africa Comos, LA Weekly, Los Angeles Magazine, and Origin Magazine. He is also a contributor to Huffington Post, The Daily Love, Good Guy Swag, and has appeared on top podcasts such as Lewis Howes’s The School of Greatness and Addicted2Success. He recently won Elixir Magazine’s Millennial Mentor Award, graced the cover of Millennial Magazine with his wife Alexi and is one of the youngest members of ATL (Association of Transformational Leaders), founded by Jack Canfield.

Dec 23, 2016

Author Daniel Pinchbeck and Destin discuss the courage required from us individually and collectively to face the shadow presented to us by a President Trump as well as by the ecological crisis we face. According to Daniel, we can see this period as an initiation or a rite of passage for humanity as a species. What is the next "operating system" for human society? How might it work and how can we contribute to it?

Daniel Pinchbeck is the bestselling author of Breaking Open the Head and 2012: The Return of Quetzalcoatl. His new book, How Soon Is Now?, comes out in February from Watkins He was a founder of Reality Sandwich and He was featured in the 2010 documentary, 2012: Time for Change. He is currently launching a new media platform, WOKE

Dec 13, 2016
John "Halcyon" Styn joins Destin in discussing their personal journeys into sexuality and radical authenticity/expression, and with forging careers out of being authentically themselves. John discusses gender dynamics and the impact being raised in a feminist household has had on him as a man, as well as how he's added to that understanding over the years. They discuss the evolution of consent, a major focal point in both of their work. The interview serves as a comment on legacy, and how to integrate the aging process into a life radically lived.
Halcyon ( is the author of “Love more. Fear less.” and has hosted the weekly video broadcast Hug Nation for over 10 years. In 2010, Halcyon co-founded the San Diego-based “1st Saturdays” homeless outreach program. If you see him around, he'd love a hug.
Dec 8, 2016

Clinical Psychotherapist Eva Clay discusses what in our neurology causes us to seek and enjoy intimacy, and how technology interfaces with the brain in the context of intimacy. She brings up Facebook, Tinder, smartphones, and porn sites, illustrating how they can create a barrier to authentic connection. She and Destin discuss the relationship between attention and love, offering potential solutions and ways to deal with the encroachment of technology into the bedroom.

An acclaimed psychotherapist, teacher, and sexuality expert, for 20 years Eva’s mission has been to illuminate the ménage-a-trois of soul, sex, and science.  Eva believes that self-love is the foundation for healthy relationships, and has helped thousands of people to attract hot and holy love.  Eva has trained extensively in mind-body philosophies and as a teacher of neuropsychology, she bodaciously reminds us that the biggest sex organ is the brain.  Eva’s been privileged to study with some of the great teachers of our time, including David Deida, Esther Perel, and Harville Hendrix.  Her courses are an elegant marriage of the profound and the playful, and when she’s not traveling the world teaching, you’ll find her making mayhem on a dance floor.


Eva offers elite coaching for men, women and couples on on self-love, pleasure, and erotic intelligence.


Nov 4, 2016

Intimacy and sexuality expert Michaela Boehm discusses her entry onto the path of sex and spirit, the true meaning of freedom, and how men can best cultivate their sensual power through tuning in to subtle sensations within their bodies, and unifying masculine and feminine energies. Destin questions her about issues specifically related to men's groups such as accountability and the challenges that come with the practice of embodiment.

Oct 27, 2016

How do you feel about your circumcision (or lack thereof)? In this highly controversial episode, Destin speaks with Brendon Marotta, the director and creator of the upcoming documentary: American Circumcision. We explore what is really going on with this age-old custom, and Destin gets on his soap-box passionately sharing about his own experience when he began looking into this issue. CAUTION: This episode gets pretty intense.

Oct 13, 2016
Most people have heard of Tantra, few people seem to really understand what it is. Lawrence Lanoff and I met at an international Tantra conference in Sedona, AZ almost ten years ago, and have continued to cultivate a friendship since.
Oct 6, 2016
Women are constantly communicating with you, and only a small portion of it is with words. What are you missing from these communications and how is it affecting your relationships -and your sex life-?
Sep 29, 2016
Rites of Passage have been a part of transitioning from boy to manhood throughout cultures and throughout time. Yet, they are largely non-existent in the modern western world.
Sep 22, 2016
If you are like most men, some part of this title may trigger you. What does it mean to show up with the fullness of who you are and what you have to offer? To hold 'nothing' back.
Sep 15, 2016
Recorded LIVE at Burning Man 2016 with special guest David Block aka The Human Experience. Being a successful music producer can come with a seemingly endless stream of women wanting to connect with you.
Sep 8, 2016
Have you ever wanted to leave it all behind and take off on an Adventure? This is the story of how a man became a fulcrum for transformation and how the driving need of men for adventure changed a life forever.
Sep 1, 2016
Michael Hrostoski, founder of The School for Men, joins Destin Gerek to discuss what it 'really' means to take full responsibility for your life, the power of falling in love with yourself and finally feeling 'good enough', their own perilous journey full of pitfalls that got them to where they are today, and of course many more tasty morsels for you to nibble on.
Aug 25, 2016
Destin Gerek is joined by Chaim Dunbar, star of the viral video: 'Where are the Men?' to explore what another archetype of modern masculinity can look like, and in doing so give men liberation to be a different, more authentic and complete version of themselves.
Aug 18, 2016
Are you kinky? Do you have any hidden sexual desires? How comfortable are you with tapping into your ‘sexual creature’ and letting him off the leash?
Aug 11, 2016
Destin Gerek takes your calls and helps you break through the places where you've been feeling stuck in your life. Do you want more confidence in the bedroom, or the boardroom? Do you struggle with what it means to be a man? Are you a woman feeling clueless about what men really want?
Aug 4, 2016
Are you sexually wired? Sensually wired? Kinky? Energetic?
Jul 28, 2016
Triambika Ma Vive joins our host Destin Gerek to have a deep and passionate conversation exploring the unique sets of challenges facing men in today's world. What does it even mean anymore to 'Be a good man' in today's world?